I had a strict upbringing. Corporal punishment during my childhood wasn’t something i dreamt about, it was a normal part of my life. I remember being put over my mothers knees for a quick dose of her slipper as well as having to bend over for the hazel switch from my dad. It didn’t happen every other day, but when it did it was justified and well deserved. Getting punished wasn’t something i longed for. It was something i tried to avoid, but it was also something i always understood as something that was sometimes neccessary. I always felt loved by my parents. I did fear the punishments, but never did i fear my parents.
Even more than strictness, when i think of my childhood i remember freedom. And that is no contradiction. The borders i wasn’t allowed to cross did widen while i was getting older. Breaking the rules would always mean punishment, but the rules were fair and i never felt i was allowed to few things.
Now, how come i enjoy corporal punishment roleplaying today. How come i enjoy getting my bottom soundly spanked – or spanking a naughty girls bottom myself?
I think i just need some good old fashioned discipline from time to time, and so do others. As a switch, i would say i prefer being active for 80% of the time, but sometimes i feel strongly that i deserve a thorough thrashing myself.
I can’t explain exactly why the schoolgirl/teacher szenario is so fascinating for me. I never got the cane at school, it was forbidden. I never had to wear a school uniform. And yet those two things turn me on like crazy. I remember dreaming about strict british school traditions when i was in my early teens.
So far with my thoughts for now… feel free to contact me!
My childhood and my fantasies Sunday, Mar 5 2006
Uncategorized 11:07
Stefanie von Platen-Wilhelms 
Its not at all clear where these desires and needs come from. They are real and deserve to be acted on in a consesual setting. I only spank in a parental way or as a teacher with a cherised student who did something stupid, like turn in a plagirized paper. I find i am good at it. The best way to explore is real time but cyber has some merit.
Let me scratch your itch
It is a mystery, for I wasn’t spanked at all as a child, and my man was spanked frequently, yet we both are fascinated by it.
Hi Stephanie. Childhood fantasies definitely play a big role in how we perceive spanking. I can remember fantasizing about being spanking and giving spankings as early as 5 years of age. When I was about 8 or 9, I even convinced on of the neighborhood girls with whom I played to allow me to spank her on her panties. I’m sure all of those fantasies play a big part in why I enjoy spanking activities so much as an adult.
does it really matter why we like spanking? some people like having food rubbed all over themselves and having it licked off. Where did that come from? I believe that we have found soumething that we like to do and we should just get on with it and enjoy ourselves with other likeminded people. Have safe fun everybody
I like a light spanking from time to time, nothing too severe but enough to make my bottom sting for awhile and leave my ass red!
love to hear back if yu want.
Debbie
Throughout my whole childhood I always felt a nervous embarrassed thrill when ever spanking was mentioned – my earliest memory of this feeling is at about the age of 6 or 7 I think. I am not sure why, but I feel it may have been because my sister spanked me when I was 4 (though I am not sure about that), but if that was it, then that is where is came from. My feeling is that our most embarrassing/humiliating/dramatic experience in early childhood, somehow attaches itself to the part of us that feels excitement later on. For many people I think their biggest turn on sexually gets attached to whatever trigger this feeling. For years my fantasies were about spanking my g/friend, but now I am in a relationship where it is me that gets spanked (although this does swap for play reasons occasionally), and it is for real to keep me in line. I don’t like the spankings, but love the feeling of thrill that it could happen and the feeling of security it gives me.
By the way, I live in the UK and went to a private English boarding school in the 1970/80s, yet I never thought about spanking whilst I was at school – nor wanted it. Apparently they even had the cane there, and someone in my class got it, but amazingly I never knew until after I left.
Miss Stephanie,
Pay attention, you could find yourself with a man from another country… and when you you’re lazy learning his language, ‘school punishments” could become become frequent…
May I sign as ‘Strict teacher’? 😉
Hi Stefanie,
I’m German too but in order to make it readable for all visitors of your blog I’ll try my English.
I just want to add a quick note. My upbringing wasn’t strict in terms of corporal punishment. I can’t remember having ever received a spanking or a slap in my face. We had rules at home, rules I had to obey. But these rules were made clear to me by my parents. The worst punishment I received was an arrest in my room. That said i do love a good spanking nowadays. As Becca already stated it is not mandatory to have received spankings and the like as a child to enjoy them as an adult.
I can relate to what you are saying..I was spanked a lot growing up. I didn’t like it then, it was hard and it was very embarrassing as I got older. I now like thinking back about it. I don’t know why, it turns me on now. I have been spanked by my ex bf friend many times and I really like it now..go figure
Like so many others here, I like the idea of being spanked now, as an adult, but as if I was still a child. And the teacher/student scenerio is my biggest turn-on, next to the nanny or step-mother/child or step-child scenerio.
My fantasies started about the age of 12 when a groups of us children played a game of Schools. The girl teacher would spank us for being silly, getting things wrong. I remember liking it, being over a girls lap and beining spanked by her hand (fully clothed). Till then Corporal punishment never was something i “liked”. I saw other boys getting the came & slipper (Was at a all boys secondary school). in Primary school the boys got the cane on their hands or a smacked hand, and the girls got a smacked hand. I never got the cane. It was only when I was about 16 that I found out that girls DID get the cane in schools, and on their bottoms. That thought I find very exciting now.
Loved your page and blogs Stephanie
Chris
My fantasy of spanking naughty ladies, came about when I attended a school located in England. I wanted to spank one of my teachers, a Miss Evans. I wanted to bend her over a school desk, raise her dress waist high, pull down her knickers to her ankles, and while she was just wearing a suspender-belt and stockings, cane her bare bottom, six or more strokes.
Stefanie. Love your site and writings. I have not seen anything lately. Are you still publishing?
I always fantazised that I wished to spank one of my female teachers. How I wished I could bend her over a desk, raise her dress waist high, and pull down her bloomer’s,{directoire knickers] kind. Then on her bare bottom, I would lovingly cane her, Such a beautiful, fantasy, I would love to play with you Stephanie. Yes, cane you Stephanie, on that voluptous bare bottom of yours. By the way, that is how I got my nome-de-plume. ‘Six of the best’, I would give you. Six of the very best from my pliable stinging cane.