Dear Friends,
I have not been active on the internet for quite some time. Still, it seems, my thoughts and even more my stories are still quite popular. That is the reason for this Website, which features my personal blog entries (including those from my now defunct Yahoo360 site). With the help of a trusted friend, Miss Veronica Fletcher, i was able to put up a story blog as well. All my old stories can be found there, and new ones may well appear.
As for myself, rest assured that I am fine. Being a mother for me is fulfillment to the extreme. The girls are almost two years old and to me they are the sweetest children in the world. They, and my beloved husband, make each of my days a happy one.
Yours sincerely,
Stefanie
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i too have been brought up with strict punishments at home by my mom. i have experenced bare bottom canining from mom a few times and from my teacher(only once that too with my moms permission).now i am thinking how am i gooing to declipne my childeren when i will become a father in a few yrs. i was never been decliniped by my father as he was not at home as he is an over sea business men. but if childeren are with both the parents then the enforcing declipne should be done by both. it is not the department of any one. the one question i want to ask to stefanie is how r u gooing to declipne ur daughter?
Hı Stefanie,
first of all ı celebrate your doughters.but you wrote that you are everyday u are wearing burlington socks and ı get very excited and want to talk about please contact to me ıt ıs coming to my dreams every night just want to talk about burlington socks my girl friend alsa wears burlington
I was spanked otk most of the time … and once or twice over the bed. Both … was really bad. They did nothing except to terrorise me and enrage me. I felt the total injustice of it – and that NO-ONE had the right to hit me !! Despite the terror – there was no way I was able to or ever did ‘submit’ for a spanking. I yelled and screamed and wriggled and made it worse – but they knew I was NOT going to just give in to such a thing! [I don’t agree with spanking full stop now btw] I was a very well behaved child that had NOTHING to do with the spankings and all to do with the fact that I WANTED to behave and please people. Still do. However, I still got spanked for silly things like spilling things, or breaking a glass etc … and things that I had NOT done which enraged me even further. Spanking didn’t work on me as I wasn’t being a ‘bad’ child !!
For me .. as I say .. I just don’t believe in spanking children – it builds walls and resentment [which at 56 I still feel keenly] and I don’t believe it’s necessary. I never spanked my children. I wanted to teach them and for them to love me and not fear me. Fear is not good – it teaches children to lie [so not to get caught] and living with fear makes life a living hell for them. Adults these days seem too caught up in their own lives, too busy to be able to realise that a lot of these .. infractions are just normal, childish growing up behaviour!!
I am sorry if you don’t agree with me .. but I feel so sad to think of a child being hurt and hit … and it IS hitting.